What is it that makes you look at someone and say “Wow! They must be really confident with themselves.”
What’s the one thing that you feel is the driving factor in self-confidence? I personally believe it’s the combination of self-love and not giving a fuck about what other’s think or say. But how do you get to a point where you can actively say “I love myself?” That’s a question I think a lot of us have. And I’m not too sure that there’s a simple answer. You see, self-love is a major work in progress. Like, I’m talking lifelong progress. Some people have an easier time than others when it comes to this progress. Also, there is no point A and point B. You don’t wake up one day and say “Wow. This is it. I love myself today.” I mean- I guess some people do? But this feeling ebbs and flows. One day you might love yourself a little bit less than you did the day before, and you know what? THAT’S OKAY! Life is all one big balancing act.
The key to self-love is noticing more and more about yourself each day…no, scratch that …each moment. Every waking moment in time you choose your thoughts and actions. Start choosing to learn more about yourself. Start accepting yourself for who you are. At the end of the day, YOU are the one you can rely on. YOU are the one who will always be there for yourself.
Be kind to yourself. Say “thank you” to yourself. Focus your energy on becoming the best version of yourself. Why not? What do you have to lose? What is it that’s holding you back from being nice to yourself? Nothing. That’s what. There. I answered it for you. Now please, for the love of you, be kind to yourself.
Laura
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